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The Heart of the Matter with Confederate Statues

27 Sunday Aug 2017

Posted by katielifewise in compassion, open mind, Uncategorized

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brotherhood, compassion, Confederate Statues, Forgiveness, God's tenderness, healing our land, Racism, unselfishness

As we fight about these issues that are arising surrounding Confederate Statues, many are wondering: why now? Why, all of the sudden, are people noticing things they lived next to for decades with not so much as a word of complaint?

This is just a sign that the stubborn facts remain: the malevolent, destructive institution of slavery was dooming our nation to discord and fighting from the start. They should never have allowed it, but because they couldn’t come to an agreement, tragically they did.

Even Washington expressed this foreboding fear: “I can clearly foresee that nothing but the rooting out of slavery can perpetuate the existence of our union, by consolidating it in a common bond of principal.” He was painfully aware it directly contradicted our Declaration of Independence, declaring ALL men were created equal!

He actually told Edmund Randolph, according to Thomas Jefferson’s notes, that if the country were to split over slavery, Washington “had made up his mind to move and be of the northern.”

Many of our Founders who were ambivalent and troubled about allowing slavery had the vain hope that it would end soon by degrees naturally, passing their responsibility on to future generations.

Of course it wasn’t ending naturally because it was economically advantageous to the rich plantation owners, something other smaller nations that had managed to end slavery like Spain, France, and England, didn’t have to deal with. In America it was actually spreading into further parts of the country.

The Civil War split this country in bloody conflict a mere 60 years after President Washington’s death.

His foreboding was right.

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As far as I can tell there is no nation on earth that presently allows slavery legally, and hopefully modern “institutions” of government finally at least acknowledge what an evil it is. Of course, there is more slavery in the world today than at any other time in history because of the much greater size of the world population – but that is ILLEGAL slavery, not legitimized by governments.

Although nations prohibit it, it still exists in heart-wrenching proportions as sex trafficking, child forced labor, and the booty of war for groups like ISIS and Boko Haram, as well as the caste system that, for all intents and purposes, behaves like slavery.

The fact that it still exists in illegitimate forms does not mean we can somehow trivialize America’s terrible history of slavery, as though it doesn’t matter now. Some have even suggested, appallingly, that it was good for the Africans we brought against their will and enslaved, as if our “civilized” way of life was better off for them.

How stunningly blind, cruel and self-serving.

Because slaveholders didn’t understand the culture or agree with the customs of another continent, in no way meant it was better for them to be enslaved, oppressed, and abused with generational lifetimes of forced labor!! How dare we?!

Anyone who has that thought cross their mind may do well to take a few hours and study the horrors of American slavery – watch Roots, or 12 Years a Slave, both based on true accounts.

Then put yourself in the mental image of someone forcibly kidnapping you and your family to a faraway country in the worse possible inhumane conditions, abusing and raping your wife and daughters, tearing your family apart, and basically working you to death from morning till night with no compensation or hope of it ever ending – for you OR your heirs!

Picture it! See your children torn from your loving arms. Watch them being mercilessly beaten. Just empathetically think how it feels for a few minutes yourself to be considered less than human. Inferior. Disposable. Disrespected. Mistreated and abused. Debased.

And this was not only allowed in our nation, it was legitimized in our laws.

Please try to understand. These feelings and the embedded memories they evoke don’t just magically dissipate on their own.

We can see now how that ravaging blight has deep roots that remain, in some areas still treating African-Americans as 2nd class citizens, even with “laws” to protect them.

What many people don’t realize is that most of these Confederate statues went up as a backlash to the civil rights movement in the Jim Crow era, quite a while after the war in the early 1900s to 1950s. They were not like the earlier memorials that were mostly to mourn dead soldiers – these monuments were deliberately put there to instruct and remind people in the public squares, often a form of intimidation in the South. Basically, as a glorification of the cause of the Civil War, and their state’s “right” …the right primarily to continue “their way of life” ~ slavery.

And if you don’t believe that slavery was the de facto cause of the war, then look up the VP of the Confederacy’s Cornerstone address, with these sickeningly shocking, unvarnished remarks:

“Our new government is founded upon exactly [this] idea; its foundations are laid, its corner-stone rests upon the great truth, that the negro is not equal to the white man; that slavery — subordination to the superior race — is his natural and normal condition. This, our new government, is the first, in the history of the world, based upon this great physical, philosophical, and moral truth.”

This is a nauseating reality that simply must be faced by those who don’t want to see it.

I know this is a tough issue, but perhaps we need to just stop and really put ourselves in another’s shoes and understand how this has affected those who have been oppressed and abused, and in many areas still are.

It’s been a difficult journey since the Civil War that officially ended slavery but couldn’t change the hearts of men and women who still embraced an inferior view of the Black race. Racially segregated schools, not allowing Blacks to drink out of the same water fountains, or sit in the same restaurants was happening in MY lifetime! We are not that far removed from legal, institutionalized racism.

This is something that MUST be dealt with head on, instead of continuing to make excuses and pass down the responsibility to future generations. If understanding what these statues symbolize and perpetuate is the next step closer to tearing down those walls of prejudice, and loving my brother, then let’s consider that.

It can be a teaching moment. It’s not changing or re-writing history, pull in the full history. Could we add other facts and statues that reveal ALL we’ve come through? Could we move some to museums, and government buildings, as places that record history, not public squares that glorify the lost cause of a divisive time period?

We must admit we have a problem with racism in America, and it’s not going away on its own.  But I choose to believe that we CAN heal and come together if we will try to LISTEN, understand, and care enough for others to be willing to lay down our own stubborn opinions.  

As Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. said, in accepting his Nobel Peace prize:

 “I refuse to accept the view that mankind is so tragically bound to the starless midnight of racism and war that the bright daybreak of peace and brotherhood can never become a reality… I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word.”

Me too.

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Feelings… we humans are not the only ones with them

18 Monday Nov 2013

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burdens, family, God's tenderness, gratefulness, living life, love of family, Murphy's law, overwhelm, personal growth, purpose, stress

woman screaming download       I’m feeling it today.

We always hear “when it rains it pours”… Another Murphyism I suppose. You know I like Murphy ~ well maybe not like; make that, relate to.

The burdens start to come and seem to pile on bit by bit. My toaster broke last week… if you can call completely melting a child’s beefy plastic spoon in it as broken (I should KNOW better – always look inside things before using them when there are curious grandkids on the prowl). Now the iron burned out yesterday – literally went up in smoke unprovoked (we use this every day – I mean, it was a nice one, with the retractable cord).

Finances have been a challenge with a transition in jobs. Not sure what is going to happen with our health insurance. I have a lot of homework to do that is very technical, read: difficult, for me, trying to squeeze it in here. But those are such tiny minuscule things compared to the burdens that I’ve been feeling for actual people.

Such as my dear friend whose husband is in a prison being brutalized for his faith… not just any prison, but a deadly Iranian prison, where the whole family faces the very real possibility that if God doesn’t intervene they may never see him again.

And another very precious friend whose husband was so burdened down he just took his life; now the family is left behind with so much pain – they will definitely not be seeing him again this side of earth. And while they have the assurance of the love of God in his life and knowing he is now safe, they live with the dreadful burden of that memory that only a sovereign God can heal. I didn’t sleep much last night.

Just got the word this morning that yet another friend’s husband is dying from stage four cancer, and she is struggling with many things and would like prayer. There are simply no guarantees in this life

I’m concerned about my husbands new health issues, my one daughter’s particular on-going health struggle with nursing her baby, my other daughter’s pregnancy and sleep challenges, and another daughter’s stomach issues and life transition that need some serious wisdom and care. Been praying and helping, deeply concerned for a niece that was desperately trying to adopt a daughter and get the house ready for all their requirements against a boat-load of odds, another niece facing possible surgery, and a nephew in life challenges.

It’s all on my mind and in my heart, just like your burdens are in yours. We carry these.

Life happens. And it brings with it many challenges. Many, many challenges! It’s called H U M A N I T Y.   And we will be dealing with this until we leave humanity for the supernatural state of eternity in heaven. Not that there aren’t also great things here on this earth, but wow, I’m really looking forward to that release without the tragic human experience.

But these really hard experiences do actually have their place – and their point. They shape us, and we have a quite a big part in the way in which we will be shaped by our response. When I was trying to type in “brutalized for his faith” it kept auto-correcting to “fertilized for his faith”… I was getting frustrated and kept telling it NO! (as if it can hear me).  But maybe God was trying to speak to me through that annoying little feature that makes up some ridiculous word exchanges when I don’t want them (even that can be used by God – He’s so creative!).

We ARE being fertilized for our faith… things are put on us that can make our faith stronger and grow bigger, more visible and useful. Things that feel like uh, crap…and well, death. “Unless a seed falls in the ground and dies it won’t bring any fruit”….

With that, I am in the middle of preparing a workshop for a woman’s conference, on stress. 😉 Talk about living it. I guess that’s a good thing to have real empathy, not that I needed it – I already knew!

Thank you, dear Lord Jesus, that you know ALL that, even better than I do. You could have just come down one day fully grown, a perfect untouched human specimen and sacrificed Your life that way. But You deliberately chose to live here on this earth, and You walked where we walked in the frail tent of human flesh, blood, and emotion – feeling, suffering, desiring, loving ~ experiencing that tragic human experience. You get it.

Ohhh. So that’s why You did it.  I can relate to YOU even more than Murphy. ❤

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